There is one night, Eve, Wil, Chr n me were chatting and wking in the office till late. We went for a puff and have a nice time chatting and asking each other questions of individual preference for the person we like. Chr was not with us as he was busy with all his paper wk. So he actually miss out the fun :(

They asked me wat type of guy I am interested in. Well I have high expectation of course not 5C a must but my own personal expectation.

1. Not wishy washy in concern to relation (I hate guys who r po po ma ma like my 2 ex)

2. Must be mature in thinking even though he can be younger or same age as me

3. Can b a drinker but not creating issues when drunk(I hated guys who r drunk and creat issue for me to settle)

4. Must b able to understand my wking hr n suitation (would b best if from the same industry)

5. Like me for who I am (i can b very sturborn and I dun like to quarrel esp small issues)

6. Really care n concern for me and siayang me (which gal dun right)

7. A little beng beng style would b nice (give me a scence of security n protection)

All my relations are long term unless there are inforseen issue that has happen. I can be a very caring and nice gf but I am a very direct person once I given up on a relation or certain issue, I will never change my mind no matter how much effort the person has put in. I have very good patient and very good temper, I have never blow my temper to any of my ex b4 expect for 3 of them. (1 bad drinking habit, 2 po po ma ma) Only after breaking up, then they regretted. To me is, it is too late, I have given up. In my older blogs I did mention all my relation, thinking back.....

3 were Malaysia (2 planning to get married but didn't)
Reasons:
1 of the unsuccessful marriage is from KL. I know I was not ready and I was still young. He is a Japanese Sous Chef a very caring and nice guy who fetch n send me home n wk by his bike. He also cook for me Japanese food that I only like to eat. Our age gap is 10 years diff, so roughly able to guess how old I am at tt time.

2nd unsuccessful marriage is from butterworth. Due to his bad drinking habit this 5 years relation is gone w the wind. He loves to drink and his style is a bit beng beng type. He always start his hero style once he is high and I always need to look after him. The worst is we always quarrel on small issues once he is drunk. Only when waking up the next morning then he is sorry for everything. I give up when I can't take it anymore.

1 more is from Ipoh but this relation we have muture understanding and went our own way to find the other half.

The rest of the relation are all Singaporean (5 relation)
Resons:
2 were wishy washy and cant decided for themselve what they wanted and looking for. Both split behind my back and I have their close friends who are all my god-brothers tell me wat the F they are doing. Once and for all I given up hope on them.

1 parents objection due to still young for both of us. He doesnt wanted to let go actually not even after we break. But his mum is too persistent in objecting.

2 came after me wo me knowing they have gf and when I found out they told me feelings w gf is not there any more. wtf being a guy or myself have to be responsible, no feeling dun led ppl on anymore. It will hurts even deeper when the other party found out. That is very selfish. This is esp when we are not married, but if married then no choice have to think of a way to slavage the relation. Unless there is really no more hope or methods.

Well I told them, Human being has a special feeling... Among all the bf/gf u have if you take the tiem to recall back all the memmories. There are few whom look alike and there are few whom attitude n character are alike. I myself in all the relation, more than half are drinkers, more than half they look slightly alike, more than half are beng beng style very protective of me. All actually treated me very good but too bad they are not the one for me.

I have always prepared myself to go for single life unless the one n only half has appear and he is the one whom I know is mine only.

Been in SCC for 3 weeks and like wking there. Everyone is like a big family, helpful, friendly and easy going expect 1 or 2. This year is my 1st year enjoying F1 while i was wking with the fantastic views in pandang area. Hearding the sound alone was fascinating and exciting. Didn't get a chance to go over to Amber Lounge where my ex-coll are :(

The next function that is coming up is Rugby 7s which is another big event which is much more worst than F1. On my 1st day to wk, my boss given me personal orentation since the HR are not doing anything. I am greatful to him for all the informations that he has given me and the high expectation he has for me. He bring me to Dempsey Field (Old Tanglin Field) to have a look and planning for changes over there. Getting our self prepare for catering service for next year as Pandang field will be use for National Day from next year on. He has the intention of putting me overall incharge of future events in Pandang field and Dempsey field in future catering operation. It means I have alot of contact with my assistant bar manager Chris in future.

To what I realised the whole of F&B Management Team are all new except for my area The Oval whom K.C have been there for 20 over years and Banyi who has been promoted, both of them are my close wking coll in Oval. In Oval we have a new RM Aru. In Pandang there is Raju Matire'D, Wilson & Jeremy Assistant Matire'D. In Main Lounge, we have Angeline Main Lounge Manager. Last but not least in Bar Operation we have Harry Bar Manager & Chris Assistant Bar Manager. All these coll that I have mentioned are less than a year in SCC but we wk like a family :) Our darling xiao mei, Evelyn who is the F&B Exe to Michael our Boss are too like a family in wk.

Working in so many hotels and restaurant, this is my 1st experience in club and it is so much diff in every aspects. No politics, everyone like a family, managers having our meal together after busy lunch operation, etc.

Min 3 years is what I normally given myself to stay in a new environment. Mayb I might stay longer. My longest service so far is 6 years in CONRAD and 7 years in n out of my favourite place NEW OTANI. New work, new environment, new coll, new challenges and new expectation. Who know maybe a new relation will be coming but i dun think so la? Hahaha....